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throwawaysalami@lemm.eeOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do people develop feelings for someone?2·22 days agoSorta, I don’t really care that much for the relationship part. I mean, if I like the girl and she wants to make it official I’ll play ball, ya know.
throwawaysalami@lemm.eeOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do people develop feelings for someone?11·22 days agobut it’s a place to start building a framework for understanding.
It sure is! Thank you, this is honestly very helpful and intuitive! They way I got confused by the last comment was because I was like: “But I’m already talking friendly with them, that’s like the one thing I’m good at.”
throwawaysalami@lemm.eeOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do people develop feelings for someone?2·23 days agobut then what is your actual challenge here?
I don’t know, that’s a good question. How to convey that to the other person, I guess?
throwawaysalami@lemm.eeOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do people develop feelings for someone?8·23 days agoOkay, clearly you’re at the end of your rope here. And I thank you for sticking around for as long as you could.
throwawaysalami@lemm.eeOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do people develop feelings for someone?2·23 days agoWhat about if you don’t want anything too serious?
throwawaysalami@lemm.eeOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do people develop feelings for someone?92·23 days agoFlirting is just friendly chatting.
Wait, so how is that different with friends??
throwawaysalami@lemm.eeOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do people develop feelings for someone?8·23 days agoDo you have to be friends first before you flirt? (I feel like a damn toddler or alien, asking these questions. 😅)
throwawaysalami@lemm.eeOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do people develop feelings for someone?8·23 days agoAsk out your crushes instead of trying to force a crush on someone you’re not attracted to.
So you just, ask them out? Do you need to behave any differently as you would with a friend?
throwawaysalami@lemm.eeOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do people develop feelings for someone?9·23 days agoHave you ever experienced sexual attraction?
Yeah, like a ton actually. Sorry I forgot to mention I do in fact develop feelings for people.
Edit: I added it to the description now
throwawaysalami@lemm.eeOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do people develop feelings for someone?3·23 days agoOkay I probably should’ve mentioned this. I most certainly do and can develop feelings for people but I just don’t know how to (for lack of a better word) make others see me for more than just a friend.
Edit: Okay it’s edited into the description now.
I mean, I’ll take what I can get (short term, long term). As I said I have never had any sort of relationship to speak of so I wouldn’t really know. But casual sex would be best for me as things are now.