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3 days agoAnd probably sometime on the first few dates, at least asking about family.
Really ? My parter didnt meet any of my family until about year 3, not “date 3”. I have met her mother 3 times but none of her siblings and that’s at year 10… I find family a chore and so does she. I have mostly nothing to do with mine and prefer being with people who have similar views. My family are mostly conservative aka hateful, hurtful and science denying.
Maybe if you’re 18 it’s a thing, later in life, not at all.
Has little to do with illegal immigration, its a veil for racism and bigotry for the vast majority.
Im a white guy, they might not say it you to be polite but they sure as fuck think i’m an asshole like them and are happy to say it to me.