

I appreciate that you want honest discussions,
Then I looked through some of your other takes and intentionally voted it down because I thought you were in the wrong
So this is exactly why I ask - I’m curious then as to what you thought was wrong. One comment that got downvoted was me thanking another commenter for an explanation behind Schumer et al, and another was just me asking someone else about their downvote - so presumably there’s a diverse range of viewpoints and opinions that you could share here. And if you chose to do so, I look forward to a thoughtful and engaging discussion on them.
I reverted my original downvote because it was not intentional.
do I really need to care whether or not you let anything “go”.
Well, I just meant that I don’t usually ask for folks to reverse or revert their downvote if it’s a misclick or some other accidental thing. Getting a downvote undone is actually pretty rare in this case.
but policing other people’s reactions
I’m asking for an opinion, not policing them! That’s more like in lemmy.world/c/politics (where mods had explicitly set up the rule that you shouldn’t downvote just because you disagree - see rule no. 5 there).
I mean, you can see that I didn’t even downvote you back in retaliation.
That being said, I need not careful
Not when it comes to me, to be sure. I don’t police and often don’t even downvote back as I wrote above. And of course I have no objections to you downvoting as long as it’s done intentionally - it’s just another way to express your opinion. (I just like asking why since it’s a chance to have a good discourse and maybe learn something.)
But in general, I do think one should be careful to avoid downvoting by misclicking or otherwise by accident - downvotes and upvotes are public and folks are trying to figure out how to use this to make bots that check for other bots, autoban users (I think st.itjust.works is already using one) and so on. So being careful and deliberate with your up and down votes is helps to avoid getting caught in some kind of dragnet.
is really just your reaction to someone else’s content
This part, I didn’t understand.
does not help you attain your goal.
My gut feel on this is that:
2 out of 10 times, the downvoter doesn’t respond to my post (explaining the reason for downvoting isn’t obligatory on most magazines after all), so I don’t gain anything (but neither do I seem to lose anything just by asking).
1 out of 10 times, the downvoter downvoted because they legitimately disagree, but we both end up particpating in a good convo about the issue.
3 out of 10 times, the downvoter misunderstood what I said, but wouldn’t have downvoted if I had gotten the point across in the beginning.
4 out of 10 times, it’s just an accident.
So 8 out of 10 times I attain my goal. I think that’s a pretty good track record, don’t you?
Strictly speaking, it’s not unbanned. Rather, the deadline by which this will happen keeps getting extended.
The first extension occurred back in January as reported in https://www.forbes.com/sites/esatdedezade/2025/01/20/tiktok-was-unbanned-after-just-12-hours-heres-why/ (and actually the app was down for about 12 hours before getting restored).
The second extension was reported here https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cx256dd1znpo which provides the “official” rationale - the President wants TikTok to be sold and is trying to give more time to get that deal concluded. In fact it seems the deal was almost concluded but got yanked at the last moment due to the tariff actions.
As to why the President is so willing to grant extensions to get a deal done (as opposed to, say, letting the ban take effect and only allowing restoration once the app has actually been sold), https://www.statesman.com/story/news/state/2025/01/22/tiktok-ban-banned-trump-who-bought-2025-meta-elon-musk-ceo-reversal-executive-order-delay/77852924007/ has some good thoughts why.
Two important points - a younger generation likes TikTok, who he may now be loathe to alienate, and also that it was Biden who signed the ban into law - so by getting TikTok sold and unbanned, it’s another reversal of something that Biden did.
If a deal to sell TikTok fails to happen by June, it’s still possible that the ban will go into effect then. Though, if you were going to bet that a third extension would be granted, I wouldn’t be willing to take the other side of that bet.