Thank you so much it just worked now!!

I added the use flags,

compiled wpa_supplicant again with --newuse,

restarted NM and wpa,

and still the same issue :(

did a killall wpa_supplicant and now my ssid shows up and i can connect to it :)

its the 3rd day for me, so as I said i don’t want to recompile anything right now

I have 2 cores with 2 threads, compiling anything again is not an option for me, atleast right now: My router only has system logs unfortunately it doesnt show any logging for connection attempts